
It is no mystery that men and women are very different. Even though feminist groups and evolutionists repeatedly try to "prove" that we are all the same, the reality is clear. Men and women are not the same. Time, Newsweek, USA Today, Dateline, etc.... all run a "new" story about every 3-5 years seeking to explain the differences and similarities. And, when they 'discover' that there are legitimate differences (chemically, physically, neurologically), the reporters seem to be saddened by the findings.
What they should really do is just ask any normal husband, wife, or parent "How are men and women different?" The answer will be quick and to the point: Men are just overgrown boys.
The evidence: our toys and toy collections. This is not a scientific study (by any means), but I'm willing to wager that a man's hobbies and interests will not be very different from those he enjoyed as a boy. Consider the following examples......
Motorcycle Man: everyone knew a kid (or three) who would pretend to be a motorcycle while he was riding his bicycle (or just riding an imaginary bike on the playground). I remember this kid Russell from elementary school would "ride" around the playground on his imaginary chopper while making all the sounds (Waaaa, Waaaa, waaaaaaa, wop, wop, wop, waaaaaa....). I bet you he owns a real motorcycle (or more) today. Of course, Orange County Choppers is his favorite tv show.
The Bookish Nerd: That guy that didn't fit in with your crowd, but chose to read those odd, rectangular things called "books" is likely compiling a personal library that rivals that of a small college. He's also got a good job, has multiple degrees and is the only person you can think of who didn't get killed in the market slumps. He's likely the best neighbor possible, his kids are stable, his family is sane, and he can fix your computer in about 35 seconds.
Cars & Trucks (Hot Rod): Those guys who stared endlessly at the pictures of cars and trucks in the magazines during "study hall" now buy and trade for cars and trucks constantly. They probably started off with Tonkas in the mud like I did. But, instead of falling in love with Tonka, they got into collecting Matchbox cars. Their favorite shows on TV were The Dukes of Hazzard, Magnum PI, Miami Vice, and the The A-Team. This guy is in a car club, goes to car shows, goes to "the races," and watches "the races" all the time. His truck has BIG tires (possibly a lift kit), and is SPOTLESS. If he's not a 'truck guy,' he's got at least one COOL car that still looks new after 15 years.
This species also liked
CBs as a kid. He is the reason for those cell-phones that can be used as "walkie-talkies."
Hunting (Woody): If you knew a guy who lived to wear camouflage to school (and you're thinking of him now), there's a strong chance that he's got a storage room full of camo, guns, ammo, bows/arrows, tree stands, knives, ropes, boots, fishing equipment, etc.... This guy probably owns a boat or two and doesn't get bored when he goes fishing. I bet Noah had a canoe before he built the Ark.
Cowboys and Indians (Pardner and Chief): the kid that loved to watch Westerns and play cowboys/indians is most likely wearing cowboy boots right now. Even if he is a lifeguard.
Music Guy: What guy didn't boost his car stereo system to an insane level? He likely played a lot of Air Guitar and owned tons of tapes and cd's. He may have grown up to play an instrument and harbors dreams of being a glam-rock star. His den is currently filled with a surround sound system that makes his TV into a theater and he'd rather listen to music than have a conversation. If MTV still showed videos, he'd watch it endlessly for tips on how to play songs.
The Sci-Fi guy: This young man was an polka-dot in the crowd of "normalcy." He stood out. He owned the first personal computer you can remember that actually worked. Today, he's been to a lot of Sci-Fi conventions in his off time. His paying job involves more computers and something to do with Jets or Rockets, but you're sure he's not talking about sports teams.
Sports Fanatic (Chip): The kid that played everything in his youth, most likely never made it in college or the Bigs. But, he still dreams of making it. He's been to a fantasy camp, been to the Richard Petty Driving Experience, has a fantasy team(s), wears sports jerseys all the time, has a matching collection of "authentic" caps, tees, sweats, etc... These guys most likely scream and curse at their kids, their wives, the umpires, and coaches (they call this "helping") and they think they know how to coach far better than those being paid to do so.
This guy watches all sports (except for soccer and tennis). He's got an encyclopedic memory of past schedules and team rosters. Worst of all, these guys play softball and basketball as if they are being scouted by Major League teams.
Airplanes and Helicopters: There is something magical about a flying objects. Men (big boys) will stop what they are doing when a plane or helicopter flies over just to admire it. These boys became pilots. There's no explaining this. There's a section of I-95 that I travel at least twice a week that is adjacent to the runways of a major airport. I try to time it so that I'm next to the airport as airliners are coming in to land. When it works out, it's just cool!!! One day, I'm sure I'll just pull over and wait.
Farm Boys (Buddy): There are two classes of this category - those that actually grew up on a farm and those that dreamed of becoming a "country gentleman farmer." Both have acres dedicated to their equipment. And, their equipment is massive. Why do they need to spend so much on bulldozers and loaders and trailers and tractors? Two reasons: they can, and they must. They love to get in the dirt and mud. Like the Car/Truck guy, these men had Tonkas but never cared for tiny toy cars.
So, we've seen that men just keep doing the same hobbies they had as boys. Now that they can earn some money, they spend it on their interests. It's that simple. Just watch a Barret Jackson auction. I bet Ebay and Craigslist are dominated by male shoppers, too.
Women have had hobbies too. Let's be fair. They had dolls, fingerpaint kits, art supplies, barbie make up games, easy bake ovens, and they liked to play "dress up." Some girls liked to play sports as children. Other than "dress up," though, most women outgrew their games and hobbies. They moved on to new toys and hobbies: we call them "children."
While a man can swim in old cargo shorts, a woman has a choice of 27 swimsuits. But, a woman doesn't have 27 different fishing poles. If she fishes, she has to BORROW a pole from a man. There are a lot of women at sporting events today. But, if they could spend that $75 elsewhere, it would be on a child, something for the home, or clothing.
SUMMARY - men are overpaid boys who have never abandoned those interests that first occupied their attention when they were younger. Women have grown up and think our hobbies are fairly petty and silly. But, they look a lot better on the beach than we do, so we'll put up with their ridicule of our silliness.